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Everyone at my sober house is in a different place. What happens to my brain after I get sober?

Lisa Ferguson

After one month of abstinence, the brain of someone recovering from substance use disorder shows reduced activity compared to a healthy control. I remember being alarmed when I was two or three months sober. I felt like I was not regaining anything and in fact, it felt like I was actually stupider than when I was drunk. My sponsor assured me that this was normal because my brain organizational chart had lost several keys employees, namely alcohol and THC and was trying to reorganize. She was right, I did start thinking more clearly in a few more months. It was after 14 months of abstinence, that my brain began to return to a healthier baseline. In our sober houses, most people at this point suddenly realize their odds have significantly improved and they feel like they're going to make it. Here's what happens next. Specifically, the dopamine transporter levels in the brain’s reward center (nucleus accumbens) start to normalize, allowing for a nearly normal level of functioning. As the brain gets healthier, a peace surrounds them. The sober house atmosphere is noticeably even more serene when they enter a room.

Groundbreaking research has also revealed that individuals who abstain from alcohol for approximately 7.3 months exhibit significant improvements in brain structure, indicating remarkable potential for recovery. I always tell families that if they are happy with the progress now, wait until 7 months. Not only are they learning how to initiate and maintain healthier, workable relationships as brain health improves, but their attitude toward life is changing. During this period of sobriety, the brain gradually heals and regains function. In the sober house, our residents speak with more confidence, ask more interpersonal questions, show more consideration for others and generally are able to get things done that need doing, often in stark contrast to just a few months ago.

Working memory, visuospatial functioning, and attention all improve, accompanied by increases in brain volume. So, even after years of alcohol misuse, the brain can experience remarkable cognitive improvements and partial restoration with sustained sobriety.

At our sober house, we are always reminding people that recovery is a journey, and the brain’s adaptability and ability to heal plays a crucial role in overcoming addiction. Call your sponsor, eat right and exercise, don't drink or do drugs and go to meetings is our mantra to them. Take care of your dopamine and it will care for you.



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On the beautiful Connecticut shore, we own and operate two gender-specific homes: a men's and a women's house in the towns of Clinton and Madison. In safe and comfortable sober houses, each offers a community where we get well and find purpose.

​1. Assess each potential resident’s needs and determine whether the level of support available within the residence is appropriate. Provide assistance to the resident for referral in or outside of the residence.

2. Value diversity and non-discrimination.

3. Provide a safe, homelike environment that meets NARR Standards.

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4. Maintain an alcohol- and illicit-drug-free environment.

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5. Honor individuals’ rights to choose their recovery paths within the parameters defined by the residence organization.

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6. Protect the privacy and personal rights of each resident.

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7. Provide consistent and uniformly applied rules.

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8. Provide for the health, safety and welfare of each resident.

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9. Address each resident fairly in all situations.

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10. Encourage residents to sustain relationships with professionals, recovery support service providers and allies.

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11. Take appropriate action to stop intimidation, bullying, sexual harassment and/or otherwise threatening behavior of residents, staff and visitors within the residence.

12. Take appropriate action to stop retribution, intimidation, or any negative consequences that could occur as the result of a grievance or complaint.

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13. Provide consistent, fair practices for drug testing that promote the residents’ recovery and the health and safety of the recovery environment and protect the privacy of resident information to the extent allowed by law.

14. Provide an environment in which each resident’s recovery needs are the primary factors in all decision making.

 

15. Promote the residence with marketing or advertising that is supported by accurate, open and honest claims.

 

16. Decline taking an active role in the recovery plans of relatives, close friends, and/or business acquaintances who may apply to live in the recovery residence.

 

17. Sustain transparency in operational and financial decisions.

 

18. Maintain clear personal and professional boundaries.

 

19. Operate within the residence’s scope of service and within professional training and credentials.

 

20. Maintain an environment that promotes the peace and safety of the surrounding neighborhood and the community at large.

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