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12-STEP

Social connectedness is the single most powerful predictor of
recovery retention and success anywhere.

​​SPIRIT

At the heart of the 12-step journey lies a sacred invitation—not to a specific belief, but to a deeper alignment with self and meaning. Personalized, self-driven spirituality. There's a strong emphasis on each member's developing their own personal value system, starting with the concept of a higher power. 

  • Growth of your values – The steps encourage self-reflection, accountability, and connection with others, rather than just abstinence.

  • Renewing selfhood – Instead of just eliminating destructive behaviors, the steps help replace them with constructive ones.

  • Inner nature rather than outside conforming emerges.

COMMUNITY

Engagement with a peer fellowship provides understanding, hope, validation, and practical wisdom. Sponsorship and group accountability can deliver daily support, challenge denial, and celebrate milestones. According to studies, the single most important factor in the success of 12-step programs is their built-in peer support network.

  • People who understand at a fundamental level what you're going through. Friends (who don't judge) to talk to during the rough and tough times

  • Positive peer role models of recovery and long-term sobriety

  • A sponsor who is on your side and who can hear and see you for who you really are ​and not judge you

IN SUMMARY​

Across all 12-step programs, motivations such as self-awareness, self-acceptance, hope, and the search for meaning are paramount. Members describe how sharing personal narratives reduces shame, reframes addictive behavior as a “no-fault illness,” and facilitates acceptance. 

  • Growth of your values – The steps encourage self-reflection, accountability, and connection with others, rather than just abstinence.

  • Renewing selfhood – Instead of just eliminating destructive behaviors, the steps help replace them with constructive ones.

  • Inner nature rather than outside conforming emerges.

12 Step is As Personal As It Gets

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READ ABOUT 12-STEP STUDIES

📘 Oxford Academic Summary (Alcohol and Alcoholism, 2020) This distillation of the Cochrane Review emphasized that manualized 12-step facilitation programs (those with structured delivery) consistently outperformed or matched other interventions in long-term outcomes. It concluded that 12-step programs are both clinically effective and cost-efficient for alcohol use disorder.

APA PsycNet Review Published by the American Psychological Association, this research underscores that 12-step programs offer unique benefits by fostering long-term peer engagement and identity transformation—elements that are difficult to replicate in purely clinical settings.

IntechOpen Chapter: Revisiting 12-Step Approaches” (2021) This peer-reviewed chapter provides a comprehensive overview of the philosophy, cultural relevance, and empirical support for 12-step programs. It highlights that for individuals who engage with the model, 12-step participation is associated with substantial improvements in abstinence, social functioning, and emotional well-being.

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MY HAPPY SELF 

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On the beautiful Connecticut shore, we own and operate two gender-specific homes: a men's and a women's house in Clinton and Madison. In safe, certified, and comfortable sober houses, each offers a community where we get well and find purpose.

Here's how:

​1. Assess each potential resident’s needs and determine whether the level of support available within the residence is appropriate. Provide assistance to the resident for referral in or outside of the residence.

2. Value diversity and non-discrimination.

3. Provide a safe, homelike environment that meets NARR Standards.

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4. Maintain an alcohol- and illicit-drug-free environment.

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5. Honor your right to choose your recovery paths within the parameters defined by the residence organization.

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6. Protect your privacy and personal rights.

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7. Provide consistent and uniformly applied rules.

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8. Provide for the health, safety and welfare of each resident.

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9. Address each resident fairly in all situations.

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10. Encourage you to sustain relationships with professionals, recovery support service providers and allies.

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11. Take appropriate action to stop intimidation, bullying, sexual harassment and/or otherwise threatening behavior of residents, staff and visitors within the residence.

12. Take appropriate action to stop retribution, intimidation, or any negative consequences that could occur as the result of a grievance or complaint.

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13. Provide consistent, fair practices for drug testing that promote your recovery and the health and safety of the recovery environment and protect the privacy of resident information to the extent allowed by law.

14. Provide an environment in which each resident’s recovery needs are the primary factors in all decision making.

 

15. Promote the residence with marketing or advertising that is supported by accurate, open and honest claims.

 

16. Decline taking an active role in the recovery plans of relatives, close friends, and/or business acquaintances who may apply to live in the recovery residence.

 

17. Sustain transparency in operational and financial decisions.

 

18. Maintain clear personal and professional boundaries.

 

19. Operate within the residence’s scope of service and within professional training and credentials.

 

20. Maintain an environment that promotes the peace and safety of the surrounding neighborhood and the community at large.

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