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SOBER LIVING, SOBER HOUSES, HALFWAY HOUSES,
RECOVERY RESIDENCES

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Difference between 'sober house", "sober living" and "halfway house"

The terms “sober houses,” “sober livings,” "recovery residences" and “halfway houses” are often used interchangeably because most of us don't know the subtle distinctions between them. But if we look closely at the origin of each of these terms, their distinctive features become clear.

The terms recovery residence, sober house, sober living, and halfway house all describe transitional housing models for people in recovery, but each has its own historical roots and cultural context. Together, they trace the evolution of community-based recovery support from the 19th century to today.

 

🌱 Recovery Residence

  • The phrase “recovery residence” is the most recent and professionalized term.

  • It emerged in the late 20th and early 21st centuries as organizations like the National Alliance for Recovery Residences (NARR) sought to unify a fragmented field under a single, inclusive label.

  • The term reflects a broad spectrum of housing—from peer-run homes to clinically supported residences—anchored in the social model of recovery, which emphasizes peer support, community, and accountability rather than purely clinical treatment.

  • Its roots stretch back to the Temperance Movement of the 1830s, when religious groups created “inebriate homes” for people seeking sobriety.

 Sober House

  • The term “sober house” (or “sober home”) became common in the mid-20th century, especially in the U.S.

  • These houses were typically alcohol- and drug-free environments where residents lived communally while attending 12-step meetings or outpatient programs.

  • The model gained traction after World War II, when Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) expanded and “12th step houses” were established to provide safe living spaces for members.

  • By the 1970s and 1980s, sober houses were often grassroots, peer-led, and sometimes loosely regulated, which led to both innovation (like Oxford Houses) and challenges with oversight.

Sober Living

  • “Sober living” is closely related to “sober house” but emphasizes the lifestyle and practice of maintaining sobriety in daily life.

  • The phrase became popular in the 1970s–1990s as recovery housing models diversified.

  • Unlike inpatient treatment, sober living homes were non-clinical, community-based environments where residents shared responsibilities, paid rent, and supported one another in recovery.

  • The Oxford House model, founded in 1975, epitomized this shift: democratically run, self-supporting, and peer-led, it spread nationwide after the 1988 Anti-Drug Abuse Act provided funding for such homes.

Halfway House

  • The term “halfway house” predates both “sober house” and “sober living.”

  • It originated in the early 19th century in England, Ireland, and the U.S. as facilities for people leaving prison or institutions, providing a “halfway” step between confinement and full reintegration.

  • By the mid-20th century, the term expanded to include facilities for people with substance use disorders, offering structured programs, counseling, and supervision.

  • Unlike peer-run sober living, halfway houses were often state-funded or professionally staffed, with stays limited to a few months.

 

Putting It Together

  • Recovery residence: the modern umbrella term, professionalized and standardized.

  • Sober house: mid-20th century grassroots homes, often tied to AA.

  • Sober living: lifestyle-focused, peer-led environments, popularized with Oxford Houses.

  • Halfway house: originally correctional, later adapted for addiction recovery, more structured and time-limited.

 

The language has shifted over time from halfway house (institutional, transitional) → sober house/sober living (peer-based, community-driven) → recovery residence (professionalized, standardized). Each term reflects not just housing, but the evolving philosophy of recovery: from punishment and control, to abstinence and accountability, to connection and community.

 

Sources: Legislative Analysis and Public Policy Association (2022); National Alliance for Recovery Residences; Addiction Professional archives; Wikipedia & scholarly reviews on sober living; Wikipedia on halfway houses.

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On the beautiful Connecticut shore, we own and operate two gender-specific homes: a men's and a women's house in Clinton and Madison. In safe, certified, and comfortable sober houses, each offers a community where we get well and find purpose.

Here's how:

​1. Assess each potential resident’s needs and determine whether the level of support available within the residence is appropriate. Provide assistance to the resident for referral in or outside of the residence.

2. Value diversity and non-discrimination.

3. Provide a safe, homelike environment that meets NARR Standards.

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4. Maintain an alcohol- and illicit-drug-free environment.

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5. Honor your right to choose your recovery paths within the parameters defined by the residence organization.

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6. Protect your privacy and personal rights.

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7. Provide consistent and uniformly applied rules.

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8. Provide for the health, safety and welfare of each resident.

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9. Address each resident fairly in all situations.

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10. Encourage you to sustain relationships with professionals, recovery support service providers and allies.

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11. Take appropriate action to stop intimidation, bullying, sexual harassment and/or otherwise threatening behavior of residents, staff and visitors within the residence.

12. Take appropriate action to stop retribution, intimidation, or any negative consequences that could occur as the result of a grievance or complaint.

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13. Provide consistent, fair practices for drug testing that promote your recovery and the health and safety of the recovery environment and protect the privacy of resident information to the extent allowed by law.

14. Provide an environment in which each resident’s recovery needs are the primary factors in all decision making.

 

15. Promote the residence with marketing or advertising that is supported by accurate, open and honest claims.

 

16. Decline taking an active role in the recovery plans of relatives, close friends, and/or business acquaintances who may apply to live in the recovery residence.

 

17. Sustain transparency in operational and financial decisions.

 

18. Maintain clear personal and professional boundaries.

 

19. Operate within the residence’s scope of service and within professional training and credentials.

 

20. Maintain an environment that promotes the peace and safety of the surrounding neighborhood and the community at large.

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